Parenting and raising beef. They have more in common than one might think, including the fact that nobody does either one exactly the same.
Several of my closest friends are also moms. Despite our closeness and the crazy amount of things we have in common, we all have differences in the ways we are bringing up our kids. And that is okay. I am always telling my mom friends, “Just because we use different methods does not mean that one of us is right and the other is wrong. We are all doing our best to do what is best by our kids – and that is not wrong.”
This same principle is true of raising beef.
Raising Kids and Conventional Beef
As parents, we all make choices based on the best interests of our kids, the resources we have at our disposal, and how we can raise successful contributing members of society. Anyone who raises beef has to consider similar things – what’s best for the cattle, how we can help our cattle reach their potential and provide safe and nutritious beef to tables worldwide, using the resources we have.

One of our other parenting choices has been teaching our kids about earning their keep. They each earn $5 for picking up the corrals.
Since my husband and I are doing both – bringing up a family and raising beef – we took all of the previously mentioned factors into consideration. And, that is how we decided that I would breastfeed our babies, homeschool and then change our minds and send our kids to public school, switch over to mostly cloth-diapering, and raise conventional (sometimes referred to as grain-finished) beef.
None of these decisions mean we think our way is the best way or the only way, but they are what works best for us and our unique situation.
I will spare you all of the gory details surrounding all of our parenting choices, but I would like to take a minute to elaborate on why we raise conventional beef. So without further ado, we raise conventional beef because…
We can better utilize our available resources.
Nebraska isn’t called “The Cornhusker State” for giggles. Believe it or not, we have a lot of corn here and corn is an excellent source of feed for cattle. Now, I know a lot of people say, “cattle aren’t meant to eat corn.” But think about this – cows are ruminant animals.
The ruminant digestive tract is the only one that can breakdown cellulose and utilize the nutrients within each kernel. And furthermore, corn is a grain. The definition of grain is the seed from a cereal grass plant. So, one might argue that all cattle are actually grain-finished since all cattle eat grass and grass seeds. (steps off soapbox)
Anyway…
There is a lot of corn in Nebraska, which also means there are a lot of empty corn fields come winter. But these fields are actually not as empty as they appear. The stalks and little bits of corn left behind from corn harvest provide an excellent source of nutrition for cattle during the winter months when the grass is dormant and not as nutrient dense.
Grazing cornstalks is pretty win-win-win because our pasture is getting some much needed rest, our cows are getting the nutrients they need, and the corn field in turn gets a little natural fertilizer. If we were to raise say grass-finished beef, we would not be able to utilize the resource we have in cornstalks.
It is affordable.
When considering resources, money is also one that has to take into account. And, in our case, there isn’t a lot of it sitting in our account. Other methods of raising beef, such as organic or grass-finished, have input costs higher than those of conventional grain-finished beef. Taking advantage of grazing crop residues, such as cornstalks, is one way we keep our input costs low.
We do not retain ownership of our calves, meaning we sell them to another member of the beef community, usually a feedyard owner. In the feedyard, they are fed a grain-based diet that includes grass and forages as well, specially formulated by a nutritionist. The calves may also be given a small pelleted implant, containing a growth promoting hormone (read more about implanted beef here). The combination of their grain-based diet and growth promotant greatly improves their efficiency, helping our calves reach market weight more quickly and affordably using fewer resources.
Raising conventional beef isn’t just more affordable for my husband and me as raisers of beef. Our lower input costs result in a safe and nutritious protein that won’t break the bank – one more option for beef consumers.
Quite frankly, it’s what we feel is best for our cattle.
I’ve talked before on this great tool we have in raising beef known as ionophores. In a nutshell, ionophores allow us to raise beef more efficiently using fewer resources, decrease waste, and reduce the need for therapeutic medications, all while maintaining efficacy and posing no detriment to human health.
Now despite all of the other benefits that ionophores provide, the improved health of our cattle and the reduced need for therapeutic medications is really important to me. As someone who understands the seriousness of antibiotic resistance, I like the option of having that tool in the box. Raising conventional beef provides that option.
Just because we use different methods does not mean that one of us is right and the other is wrong. We are all doing our best to do what is best by our cattle and the folks who eat the beef we raise. And, that is not wrong. This same principle is true of raising kids.
*As with any other topic – if you have any further questions about how beef is raised, please, feel free to leave them in the comments section of this post or send them to me using the Contact Me page.
**Tom and I live, work and are bringing up our family on part of large ranch in the Nebraska Sandhills. We also have a small herd of cattle that we own personally and run in partnership with Tom’s folks. The cattle most often featured, and referred, to here at Faith Family and Beef are owned by the ranch we work for. Although both herds are raised similarly and produce conventional beef, all references made in this post are regarding the cattle we personally own.
I could not agree with you more. I think it is very important for consumers to recognize that there are so many different ways to raise cattle and not to lump methods into distinct groups. My husband and I moved from the east coast which is dominated by small organic operations to work on a large conventional cow calf operation eastern Montana where they also market some of their steers as “natural”. We are getting wonderful experience and doing what’s best for us, learning from folks who have been in the business for 85 years doing what’s been best for them. Thank you for this post it is very well written.
That is so awesome, having mentors who have been around awhile is invaluable! From options in our grocery stores to different life experiences, I think it is so important to have a variety and the opportunity to choose.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for reading!
Great job Terryn! Kids and cows just want to be taken care of in the best possible manner and how great is it that there are lots of different ways to do that.
Laurie
Right?!?! Thank you Laurie for your kind words and for taking a moment to read!
Hey Terryn have you heard of Abeka curriculum for home school? I LOVE teaching from it. Great post above they both definitely do relate to each other!
I have not. To be honest, we have been going off of a friend’s goals for homeschool that she adapted from the Nebraska state standards, but I will have to look into it.
Thanks for reading! Can’t wait for you guys to get back! 🙂
I’ve never commented, but have lots of friends who read your blog. I’ll definitely be back. Great post! Parenting is hard work for sure and I never quite feel like I’m getting it right, but definitely trying my hardest to not totally mess up my kiddos! :0) Same goes for raising beef…we do what we think is best for our land and animals. Thanks for sharing your thoughts…we can learn a lot from each other when we show compassion and respect.
Thank you for reading, Maggie! I agree with you 100% – parenting is hard and mostly done by trial and error. As parents and raisers of beef we have to constantly evaluate and re-evaluate making adjustments along the way to do what is best for our unique situations. And showing compassion and respect is exactly how we need to be sharing our stories, not matter what your stance.
Thanks again for reading!